Yep, I posted a sex ad on Craiglist. This was about 3 or so years ago. I was still in college and had no boyfriend for a couple years. I was extremelyyyy horny pretty much all the time. So I decided WHY NOT make an ad for exactly what I’m looking for in a Dom. I thought that maybe I could find a fulfilling dom/sub relationship.
Meeting up with guys from online wasn’t new to me at all, but I had never used craigslist and never specifically met up with anyone for BDSM type play. I’ve used pof.com and fetlife.com. Oh and xbox live! I guess I’m just secretly a dirty dirty little whore 😉
So you can just imagine my sex ad where I talk about the kinky stuff I like, including the rape fantasy bits. I got lots of responses, most really creepy where all they say is “I’ll rape you” with a dick pic attached. I wasn’t sure I would find anybody that was truly legit. Looking back, I wish I would have kept those messages so that I could post them here.
Out of all the responses I got, I would end up going to see three different men. Only one of them legitimately and actively in the BDSM world, we’ll call him H and I’ll talk about how awesome he is later. The other two guys… well let’s just say I got interesting stories out of going to see them. One of them was a creeper and this is my story about him.
So I’m driving to see this guy, we’ll call him B. It’s fairly late at night and I already feel like it is a horrible idea, but I do it anyway because, well, I’m very very impulsive. I suppose it’s my ADD coupled with sex addiction. I get to his apartment and he looks nothing like his pictures, for one. He’s much older than he said, very tall, and not very attractive at all. Then he starts complimenting me, telling me how I’m prettier than he expected and how I look like a nice, modest, southern girl and I don’t look like all the whores around the college campus. How I must be different than all of them. He says “I don’t have any STD’s I can prove it to you” and tries to show me his paperwork. I don’t look at the paperwork and just say “I believe you”. We sit down and watch a really old TV comedy show that I had never heard of, but it’s his “favorite”. At one point I say a few things sarcastically and get a little attitude with him, because that’s just the way I am sometimes. So he tries to tell me how I make a horrible submissive and I’m not cut out for it, blah blah blah. Like he really knows me after talking to me for 30 minutes.
He talks about various things, including his military career and some creepy stories about killing people. To be more specific he talks about using a knife to cut through and down a person’s chest. Then I notice a cute, cuddly cat walking around and I get kinda excited because I love animals and I thought that was a sign that he might be a normal person. Until he picks the poor thing up by the tail and proceeds to tell me “Oh he likes it when I do that, don’t worry”…
So I’m getting extremely creepy vibes from him and I’m worried that if I try to leave he might try to stop me and may even hurt me… and I really don’t want to piss him off cause then I might end up cut into pieces and thrown in a dumpster.
I was on my period and I thought that would stop him from wanting to do anything, but he just says he doesn’t care. B also said that he has had a vasectomy and that we don’t need to use a condom. I don’t argue with him and just let him do what he wants. He asks me multiple times if he could call his buddy to come over and tells me how much I would like a threesome, but I kept telling him no. I’m surprised he didn’t call his buddy over anyway. I’m thankful he didn’t.
So like I said, I just let him do what he wanted because I was worried what might happen to me if I said no to him. So he takes me into his bedroom and I lay on the bed, naked. I tell him I still have my tampon in and he dives in to go get it. Takes it out and goes to throw it away for me! When he comes back he dives back into my vagina and proceeds to go down on me, blood and all. I was completely and utterly disgusted. UGH. Obviously, I didn’t enjoy it at all and I was having a really hard time pretending that I did. I’m just hoping for it to be over REALLY fucking soon. After he comes back up, he wants to kiss me *barf* and then enters me.
Suddenly, he stops. He looks at me completely serious and says “You’re going to come back to see me again right?”
I said “Why?”
“Promise me you are going to come back again.”
I’m really confused and worried.. thinking I better say yes… otherwise he might do something to me.
Then he says “I have your wallet, license, and credit card. I’m not giving it back to you until you come back here again.”
I’m thinking WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK! When the fuck did he grab my shit and hide it from me??? Was it when he went to throw away the tampon???
Then he says “I’m just kidding I don’t have it.” And I’m really not sure whether to believe him or not.
Finally he finishes fucking me, having cummed inside of me, and me just feeling absolutely disgusted that I have let this happen to myself.
I get dressed, grab my things, check to make sure I have my wallet, and leave as fast as possible. Thankful that I just survived. For a couple of weeks, I get nasty, mean text messages from him, putting me down and expecting me to come back to see him. Until he finally stops and I never hear from him again.